Love~{HAITUS}
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Post by Love~{HAITUS} on Feb 20, 2009 22:19:23 GMT -7
^This is Aiden. Okay, so, little lovely Alex did somthing extremely bad and I don't know what to do. So theres this boy that I hang out with a lot, and just one night I got reeeal drunk and well... you can guess what happened, and now my some people found out and now their spreading it around to school that I had sex with him and nooow I'm the two of us are getting called into the principles office and he's threatening us that he'll call our parents if we do it again, and we've kinda been secretly getting together but no ones found out but the people I really trust and I think my extremely religous aunt angie figured out that I basically threw my virginity out the window at a pretty young age, and I seriously don't know what to do, or if I should tell someone.
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Post by Tealah on Feb 21, 2009 16:02:39 GMT -7
I don't know you very well, so feel free to disregard my advise... I'm actually of two minds about this. You're sixteen, which is consensual age in the US (are you even in the US?), so I don't see how it's any of the school's business what you do outside of it, as long as it's not illegal. On the other hand, you're a minor so everything you do is subject to your parents or guardians' approval. And, if you're in the US the whole drinking thing is bad enough as it is... I'm not saying you should stop seeing this kid - I was with my husband (although we weren't married then, we were just in high school together) just a year older than you so I'm not going to bore you with being a hypocrite. I am saying, though, that if YOU think it's a "bad thing" then you shouldn't be doing it. Other than that, there's nothing you really NEED to do. Nobody can tell you exactly what you should do. A little soul-searching wouldn't hurt, and would kind of help you see how you really feel about the situation. That's just all my opinion, coming from all the experience of my old age (haha). Good luck, and please for-the-love-of-all-that-is-sane, be careful.
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